If I didn't have anxiety before, I do now. What It's Like in Words by Eliza Moss is one of the most emotionally taxing books I have read. My anger level was high.
Enola is a young (28 year old) writer that meets a man at her writers group. Her initial reaction to him is negative. If I were to be in a discussion about the story, this is an element I would certainly highlight. She did not listen to her gut reaction and ended up in an abusive relationship with this man. Enola does have a group of friends that can be a support system and has a best friend, Ruth, that is by her side throughout the story.
The story keeps the reader right on the edge of Enola finding her way, but...no. What It's Like in Words does give background on Enola that gives the reader something to work with. There are parallels that could make sense of the situations that don't make sense to someone that hasn't been in these types of relationships. There is also I relationship option appearing perfect for Enola, but even that goes awry. Is it possible that some people need the drama? Or just don't want happiness?
What It's Like in Words shows how easy it is for a person to justify abuse on levels that seem extreme. I have people in my own life that I would love to gift wrap this book for and say "see, this is what is happening to you". Unfortunately, I think many of us know someone in the situations this book portrays.
I'm still unpacking what I read, but do think this book would be a good read for those that like stories leaving you in deep thought about human characteristics, thoughts and actions.
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